Niecy Nash, the star of the weekly web series on Yahoo! “Let’s Talk About Love” and author of "It's Hard to Fight Naked," recently dished to Playboy magazine the secrets to a happy marriage. Known to be candid, the comedian shared some very intimate tips.
On oral sex…
What I say in the book is, "A BJ a day keeps the divorce attorney away" and I say that because I feel like men are profoundly simplistic, which is the reason I wanted to call my book what I used as the title of chapter three, which is, "Stomach Full, Penis Empty: A Woman's Guide to a Happy Marriage." Keeping him fed and drained, you have no problem. We are really more complicated than they are and I think that women are more generous with oral sex because we nurture by nature. We want to be pleasing by nature, that's in our DNA, so I think that a lot of the behavior we're looking for sexually, you might have to educate your partner. Sometimes, men just assume they're going to get it and you need to be like, "Give me mine. Ladies first."
On communicating sexual needs….
What's so interesting is that [women are] more willing to have conversations about "Do you want to get married? Where do you see this relationship going? Do you want to have children?" than we are to ask, "What kind of sex do you like? What are you into there?" You know what I mean? And that's a conversation that a lot of people dive into but if you're going to be with someone for the rest of your life and they're failing to meet your sexual needs is like doing a slow dance with death. We need to make sure we can meet right there in the middle. The best thing that could have ever happened to me, and I was so fearful when I did it, was I got my tubes tied and had a hysterectomy. It gives me and my husband a different liberty — we can do what we do anytime, anywhere, at a moment's notice. So that's a sidebar into my situation, but I can get the party started.
I couldn’t agree more. Ladies, speak up and let your man know what it is you expect romantically, and especially sexually.
On to Usher and Tameka Raymond, according to TMZ, allegedly an individual is shopping the former couple’s sex tape. In 2010, a theft broke into Usher’s car stealing two laptops, two video cameras and jewelry estimated to have worth close to a million dollars.
Mark Geragos is representing the Atlanta native and is working feverishly to find the offender.
Lastly, as a result of fertility clinics high costs, there are now services that offer women an alternative. According to ABC news, women can go online to find donors, who make their sperm available by offering to have sex with women for free—dubbing the activity “natural insemination.” The men offering these services via an online advertisement, posting photos of themselves as a child and an adult as well as personal information such as hair color, IQ, etc.
Tune into ABC News’ 20/20 Nov. 14th at 10 p.m. for the full story.
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