The hardest woman in the world to court is the one who is confident, knows her value and has discovered her God given talents. Throw in the fact she is educated, goal-oriented and refuse to settle, you’ll have what I call the perfect group of threes (or maybe six). To date this woman you have to be a self-aware kinda guy, who is equally confident and goal-oriented. Now let’s make it even more interesting: she’s a spoiled brat. WAIT! First let me layout several definitions of a spoiled brat and then let me give you my definition. The definitions are as follows:
A. A spoiled brat is a child or adolescent that exhibits behavioral problems from overindulgence by his or her parents. Children and teens who are perceived as spoiled may be described as "overindulged", "grandiose", "narcissistic" or "egocentric-regressed".
B. An ill-mannered immature person.
C. A kid who wants everything s/he sees... and will cry and scream until s/he gets it.
Now here is mine:
A child who follows his or her parent’s instructions, for the most part, and as a result he or she is rewarded with whatever one’s heart desire, within reason of course. This “spoiled brat” is not only spoiled with gifts, but also love and attention.
The “spoiled brat” is a handful. Because life has not necessarily been easy, but has always —somehow— worked out in her favor it’s kinda hard for her to acknowledge she cannot ALWAYS have her way. She understands the world does not run on her time, but she hopes at least the relationship will, a little selfish I know. Fellas you’re wondering well how do I deal with this? Don’t worry I got you covered. Here are five tips to help you successfully date a “spoiled brat”:
- Use a comforting and caring tone. When there is a disagreement she will immediately begin to pout and since she’s use to having her way it will be hard for her to see your position. However, if you use a comforting and caring tone she will see that you are not the enemy and will be willing to compromise. She just wants you to care about her feelings.
- Don’t be dismissive. When there is a problem, spoiled or not, no one wants to feel dismissed. Again, this shows a disregard for her feelings.
- Pamper her. Fellas pay close attention to this one. Women who are spoiled crave an overindulgence of attention. You do not have to go broke pampering her. Sweets texts, quick calls, long calls, love notes, cards, date nights are all her spoiled heart desires. Blame her father.
- Pay attention to how her family treats her. More times than not, a woman who is deemed spoiled comes from a family who spoils her with attention and gifts. If you guys are serious, and you’ve met the family if you pay close attention to how her family treats her and find a way, within reason to mimic that, you’ll be just fine.
- Set boundaries. She’s spoiled so that means *drum roll* she does not know boundaries DUH! Set them from the beginning and she will follow suit.
*BONUS TIP: A woman who is spoiled also knows how to equally spoil her mate.
Remember no one is perfect and we all have some sort of kinks to work out. We all have positive and negative traits and if the good outweighs the bad, don’t be a fool and let her go. So be prepared, be patient and take heed to these tips. It will definitely save you a lot of headaches and get you laid. Thank me later :-)